::Life's Little Mystery::

life requires lots of love, and loving brings life

Thursday, December 23, 2004

These are a few quotes that caught my attention ~
*A hug, a look, a smile make up the language of love.
*To love someone, is to be the only one to see a miracle, invisible to others.
*Couples who love each other, tells each other a thousand things without talking.
*Love hurts because we love too much and too deep that sometimes we forget to keep a little for ourselves.

Love, is a beautiful thing, but how do we know for sure that what we feel is the real thing? I am someone who doesn't fall in love easily, but when i do, i fall hard, real hard. Then again, how do i know it's the real thing? "I just know it and feel it" one might say, or "It's the comfort that i feel when i'm in his arms" i might say. No one will know for sure, even couples who have been married for decades end up divorcing each other because of "incompatibility".

My english teacher brought up a very interesting argumentative topic in class today. "Is cohabitation the key to a happy marriage?" Everyone has a different perspective on this topic. Some might say that this is just a means for guys to get convenience sex, or couples are doing this to 'try' marriage. What ever people might say, in my own opinion, i think that cohabitation is a good way for couples to achieve that marriage compatibility, not just for the sex, but for the low-down in real-life marriage scenarios. Like paying the bills, washing the plates, seeing each other 24/7, snoring etc. By doing so, you will get to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with the other person. And if cohabitation doesn't go well, at least you saved yourself from a lot of hassle by divorcing. I'm not saying that it is the KEY, but it is a good way.

This is a very subjective matter, and there will be alot different views from different people. But, like i said before it depends on the individual. I myself would consider cohabitating.

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