who's the one?

"How would you know if he is 'The One'? The one destined for you?"

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It was one of those days when we had this conversation over cokes and fries in Mcds. It was quite a while ago if you ask me. And my answer for this question is that, you wont.

In theory, in order for that person to be 'The One', you would have to only feel love for that one particular person. And i believe that it is not possible because humans are capable of loving alot of people. And the love for each person differs from the other. How then, from that pool of people you love that you decide on that one particular person to be your 'one'?

I say it's all your choice. You choose the person you want to love, you choose the person you want to invest your time and attention on, and you decide on whether your future is with that person. If for example, one person is your destined one, but yet you choose not to invest anything on that person, is he/she still the one?

The One means the person that you will be with until death, the one you will love and whom will love you until death. These I believe are all created by romance authors to make money that plays on the dreams and emotions of females.

There are more and more people questioning the process of finding lasting love. It's a game of gamble really. To find one who will invest as much as you in the relationship. And it all comes down to choices. Not destiny. Or more aptly, 'Law of Attraction'. ahha..

So, do i believe in destiny? To some extent, but destiny only brings you the person, it's your choice on what you want to do after that.

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Footnote: I'm not a skeptic in love, mind you. Heck, i'm a sucker for romance! But i'm starting to look at love at a more realistic viewpoint. :)

Happy loving!

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You can tell it's examination time when i start rambling on like this huh..?! ;p hehe